Loss of a job just happened to you. Accept that you may feel disoriented for a while. This is quite normal. Don ‘t be too hard on themselves in the first weeks after being laid off. If you are emotional, even traumatic side of laid off its course and accept, you will probably stop your much faster than the rejection of your emotions.How best suit your new situation to win back? Three things come to mind: . “Do not” mentally to solve your previous employer, and enjoy your leisure activities as usual “Do nothing ” You may your morning coffee by 10 clock advantage you might be in your neighborhood 11.00 clock up before some mindless TV shows for a good laugh at noon. In the afternoon, it was languishing on the reading of the detective novel, which was on the porch. Then you can take the kids to soccer practice instead of your spouse. Just as lazy or as active as you wish. There is no right or wrong. You can relax and get used to your new status as a person ‘between two jobs “or ” starting in a new direction. “In fact, to relax for a moment, perhaps the best method. Resolved calm at this point, take it easy and Don ‘t stress on mental future.Disengage your former employer a good way, from your former employer and let go, to avoid contact with former colleagues office, unless you are close friends of yours. You must realize that the old company is now history. Make contact with you, every minute there is with regret, to go and we were busy extension of your agony. Resist the urge to avoid your disappointment or anger at your former employer and the life that pushes you to fast.The best thing to do is to “declare victory “. You achieve this by telling you that you had a great time at your former employer, we met great people, had a good race, deserves a fair money, learned some new tricks … and now you’re ready for better things.Sit on the couch, close your eyes and check the last months or years of your former employer. Think of the laughter you had a successful thing you did go to work. And finally close this chapter. Be happy that you did a good job and a roof andProtection … Unlike many others in the world. Count your blessings. Your job is gone, but your life is not over. Here you will find another job because you had one before. No need for your leisure activities as usual despair.Enjoy There is no reason for you to stop your regular activities. Keep track of what you like in terms of sporting, cultural or social even more important – for mixing and stirring, to be active. Since the continuity in your life should help you, your emotional balance. Don ‘t stay in your home every day and hide. Get out and enjoy life as much as you can.Doing these three activities for one or even a few weeks to help you put the past behind. Be aware, however, that this adjustment period should end one day. There are so many other important actions to pursue after job loss.