Leave your Rat Race We can all get into a rut from time to time – get the treadmill!. Who hasn ‘t been a moment in his life, where you ‘ ve asked the question: “Why do I do ” Whether it ‘s that You have transformed the business are you in your career , your relationships, where you live or all of the above – sometimes you realize that ‘s do not want to be where you – and you ‘ do not know how you get it! It sure feels like your own version of a though.If rat race where you want in your life is not where you are, then maybe it is time ‘s for you to abandon your own rat race. We believe that we will continue to strive to take more and do more to be conditioned “success “. But this definition is limited and doomed to failure. If we are to succeed in that what and how we run we created our own treadmills on.1. Define success for yourself redefine the success of the first step in a new perspective. Try this exercise by adding the followingSentence. “I know I am successful when ……. ” You can not finish the sentence with something to do with labor or materials goods.Here are some examples. I know I’m successful if …. … I laugh every day with my children … I bounce out of bed every morning with enthusiasm … all of my relationships give me great pleasure … I inspire others to make positive changesBy redefine what we believe makes us successful, we begin, for various things in our lives to achieve. This may be enough to slow the treadmill for us to take stock of where we are.2 instrumental. Spring cleaning of your mind If you feel as if you don ‘t have time for anything, especially thinking about ways to do things differently, it ‘ s time for a timeout. If we are busy and occupied all the time, we are generally in response to things around us, rather than acting out of choice. So make an active choice to take a break for vacation, you talk with someone you trust to let off steam, do something to get a perspective on your situation lasts. Just this simple step, you feel more control and can help the energy you’ll simplify ‘Need for future changes. The idea is not only going to leave the rat race, but a stronger focus on meeting living3 way. Get real The reality is that “someone change t man s behavior, but yours. It is therefore ‘s the right time to stop, that people are different, to act in such a way that you feel better. Furthermore, it is time to make alternative plans in case you are t win the lottery or getting a raise. It seems harsh, but people who expect things reach their is usually a long wait. Don ‘t for chance or fate to step in. understand what it will cost, wait (at the time, energy, money, etc.) to make the changes you know you have to do. Then find out what it will cost, not to.4. Something light pack ‘s very cathartic for taking the time to clean things – get rid of the old to room for the new. You could use a room in your home, your list of email addresses, or old beliefs that don ‘t worth you do not start with adding more. In every situation there is a good lesson to take with you some of theTo maintain the value. Even if only “Well, that ‘ SA place I know, I never want to be re,” it is interesting to the situation keeping.Any something and your perception of it, some who you are. identify exactly what you want and keep what you ‘s be brutally put behind them, you can even miss some of the things they leave behind at -.. ‘ s all the process, what you find is. a new energy for new things that you are in your life -. a good start to let your treadmill and start a new journey.5 Create a map When was the last time you wanted to be in 5 or 10 years thinking? For the company to work for others – – We get this until “to ” things captured what we think we should do, to think that we n ‘have no time, what we really want to, you forget. the race. journey.Take you think the time to think about themselves, and where you want to be. Nobody other card will do here-c is the time to reflect difficult for themselves. What are the fundamental valuesyou support to ‘d like your life? What do you like to do or be? What gives you meaning? What do you stand? That could not be dissuaded from believing in, what happens? If you had to live a moment of life, what would you do with it? These are difficult questions and their answers are part of the trip. Don ‘t monster or feel guilty if you don ‘ t know the answers right away. Read for the impatient and perfectionist people, this is not a test – there is no pass or fail. So Don ‘t treat them as such. The more you know about yourself, the more you will be able to start your own map.6. Head for life! (Not the lifestyle) Do you know what is the difference between life and maintaining a lifestyle? A lifestyle is something that we said that we need in society, advertisers and parents. The luxurious life ‘s nice to have, can be costly and financially on energy they receive. Perhaps the energy spent maintaining a lifestyle that could be better used turning your life into an expression of who you are. A lifestyle buysComfort. We buy life satisfaction and contentment. The best bed in the world that for a comfortable night without sleep, if you lack contentment. If your lifestyle prevents you that you are then dump it.7. Go to your ideal, if it appears that you submit your rat race and into your perfect life, would you know? Create a vision of where it would be, you ‘s what you ‘ re done. Draw around your passions, beliefs, values and loves. Do you remember how you spend your money if you know what you’re out of your life for ‘Don s that many people will be only too happy to say you.8. Make sure the bit rough. The choice is to live your life your way more difficult than staying in your rat race. People you know or understand his incredulity, and won ‘t hesitate to give you their opinion. Temptations abound for a few laps of the racecourse old when the going gets tough. Our old comfort zones are traps waiting for us to make us return to our old ways. By consciously and plan how you ‘ll come to, you will receive. Somethingcan be scary to be different. But it can be fun too! 9th Enjoy the ride! You ‘ve done that you don ‘ t want more, and identified where you do. Now live where you are. The past and continue to learn. Plan for the future, but live in the present. You can ‘t do anything to stop yesterday, so worried about it. If you spend every minute think about tomorrow, you ‘ll not enjoy today. And that ‘s where the action is! 10th Go ahead. No more excuses. Nothing more to say. Simply it.Sometimes the only way to “win ” a race – where there can be no winner – is to simply stop running.